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Wednesday, February 17, 2010
Attract a new job
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Attract perfect mate/ improve your relationships
Personal relationships are very important.
Most of us think that our relationships make us, only when people love us we are truly valuable.
Louise Hay says that there is a big difference between need for love and being needy for love. Being needy means that you are missing love and approval from the most important person you know: yourself.
The most important relationship you have is with yourself.
How do you treat yourself?
Do you love and approve of yourself unconditionally or do you put conditions for yourself.
For example if you say that if I have a great job only then I am more valuable then you do not love yourself unconditionally.
How can you not love yourself?
You are a great person because you are you.
You are a person who was born as a positive addition in the world. When you were young you demanded what you wanted. You did not care about others approval because you approved yourself. As you grew older your surroundings disapproved you and you trusted them instead of yourself. It is normal to seek approval from others but how can they be judge of something that is truly yours. You are only yours. You are the only person who can feel yourself. Then why would you give out authority to others about your feelings. You should not. It is now time to take that authority back and love you truly.
If you think that having a great job is the only way people will love you then you are mistaken. People will love you after you get a great job only because that is your belief. If your belief is that people love you unconditionally then even that will come true. You can begin this by loving yourself conditionally. You know you deserve it.
Loving yourself is easier than you think.
Step one is to stop criticizing yourself. In your assignment if you receive only C instead of B or A that you expected do not start cursing your professor or yourself. Say to yourself I have learned from this. I now move on to the place where I attract better grades, where I study more and write my assignment with a great content.
If your boyfriend leaves you it is not because you are not good enough but it is because you and him are not aligned together. He wants something else from life while you want something else.
When you stop criticizing yourself you will automatically stop criticizing others. Nobody likes people who judge them but they are usually quick to judge others. When you stop judging yourself and others you become a friendly and attractive person.
How do you want your loved ones to behave with you is the same way you should behave with yourself. If you want respect from others then respect yourself first. If you want your lover to buy you flowers then make sure to pamper yourself with flowers. You are attracting the feelings of happiness that you receive after getting flowers. This way even if you do not receive flowers from others you know that you have already satisfied your need and you did not need anyone to do it for you.
You never need anyone to make yourself feel good. These are norms created by society. You are of course entitled to live happily with your perfect partner but do not be dependent on him or her to satisfy your needs. If you treat yourself good then by law of attraction you will attract similar relationships in your life.
Do not talk about loneliness and needy.
Are you really alone?
You always have yourself with you. You walk with your mind, you sleep with your mind, and you have deep conversations with your mind. Mind is truly your best friend, life companion. Everything can be lost or destroyed but your mind will be always there. Of course your mind can also act as your enemy if you do not train it with positivity but fortunately it entirely in your own control to train it with your thoughts. Your mind is your ability to think, you are your best friend.
You are always supported by the great intelligence of your own mind. When you are alone you can talk to yourself about what is the best way to go home and you can decide on your own.
When you start to feel lonely, get dressed and go out for a walk. Go to your favorite park or a museum.. You do not truly need others. But human is a social animal. Each and every one of us needs to socialize that means none of us can stay alone increasing your chances to be with others. Therefore let your subconscious mind know that there is really someone out there who is your perfect mate. With whom you are ready enjoy your time.
If you keep saying that nobody loves me, then by law of attraction you will bring the exact same thing. Instead say to yourself, I love my own company. I am smart, happy and fun to be with. You will attract it from all corners and people will love to be with you.
When someone says something bad about you, don't get upset. Know that you attracted this situation due to your previous old thinking. But now you can think better. Do not argue with people who do not see the good in you instead leave them alone. It is a good thing to know when some people do not want to hang out with you because by law of attraction you are attracting people who are like you, not negative people.
Don't talk about how awful it is now.
This will bring in more awfulness in your life. If you love to have companies in your home then make sure that your home is always presentable. You are always ready to entertain the company. You always have snacks.
Attract your perfect mate:
Our thoughts are reflected in our lives but many times we let our lives reflect in our thoughts. It is normal but it will only bring in what you see not what you desire.
95% of our behavior is originated in our subconscious mind. Only way to get to the subconscious mind is through our conscious mind. Once our subconscious mind believes something consider its done. For example, your subconscious mind (the most intelligent machine by the way) knows and believes that there always be the next breath for you to inhale and guess what this most important thing is always available for you. When our subconscious mind starts believing that you are not good enough through repeated conscious affirmations then you will not be able accept anything good. You will behave in a way that deprives you from the goodness. You may be an excellent hire for a job but you will be denied because you behaved in some terrible way during your interview. Bottom line is that you have to let your subconscious mind that you truly believe your goodness.
To attract your perfect mate you have to make sure that subconscious mind is accepting what you want. So tell it through your conscious mind that you are now ready to accept your perfect mate. Treat yourself in a way that you want your perfect mate to treat you and your subconscious will believe that you truly deserve it and guess what you will receive it.
Your subconscious mind can set your limits or allow you to accept all that you desire.
Train your subconscious mind to attract your perfect mate and to improve your relationships.
Remember your most important relationship is the one with yourself.
Create new thoughts. Thoughts create your future.
Say these affirmations as frequently as you can:
From time to time I ask those whom I love, how can I love you more
I choose to see clearly with eyes of love, I love what I see
I draw love and romance into my life and I accept it now
Love is around every corner and joy fills my entire world
I rejoice in the love I encounter every day
I am comfortable looking in the mirror, saying I love you, I really really love you.
I now deserve love, romance and joy and all the good that life has to offer
I am surrounded by love, all is well
I am in a joyous, intimate relationship with a person who truly loves me
I am beautiful and everybody loves me
I am greeted by love wherever I go
I attract only healthy relationships
I am always treated well
I am very thankful for all the love in my life, I find it everywhere
Watch this video for effective affirmations.
Thank you!!
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Prosperity Checklist
Money is nothing but energy. You can attract money in easy ways. There is plenty of money for everyone but only those who deserve it will receive it.
To deserve money you simply have to believe that you do deserve the wealth.
Prosperity does not mean only money, it also means being comfortable. Having a great life that you can enjoy the fullest. Prosperity also means having great friends, great family, great relationships and of course a great lifestyle.
Please follow the guidelines.
You can never create prosperity by talking poverty
Dwelling on lack creates more lacks
Appreciation brings in more to be grateful for
Never resent others for their money
Open your consciousness about money and it will be yours
Negative attitude about money will never bring more money
If your steal or rob from life, life will steal or rob from you, because what you give out comes back to you, multiplied many times
- Do you respect yourself?
- You must respect yourself all the time. You are a great person. Can you imagine someone going through all that you did and still be where you are right now.
- Maybe you made some mistakes in the past but you have always learned from your mistakes.
- You deserve all the respect because you respect others
- You are divine child of the Universe
- By respective yourself you are telling Universe that you deserve the money from life and Universe will respond by bringing all the money that you deserve
- If you do not respect yourself you are telling Universe that you do not deserve the money and Universe will respond by taking money away from you
- By respective yourself you are telling Universe that you deserve the money from life and Universe will respond by bringing all the money that you deserve
- Do you respect others?
- You must always respect others because they are human beings just like you
- They have same emotions, feelings and sensitivity like you. No matter how the person looks or sounds the emotions are always same.
- If you do not respect others, it means you do not respect yourself.
- What you give out comes back to you, which means by robbing others of their respect you are robbing yourself of respect telling Universe that you do not deserve your highest good
By respecting others you attract more abundance
By respecting others' prosperity you attract prosperity in your life because you accept the fact that there is plenty for everyone including you
- Do you steal from life?
à Stealing from life means do you steal small things that You think don't count but you know they do.
à Do you steal paper clips; make free copies from your office. By behaving this way you are telling Universe that you do not have enough and you are attracting more of that feeling
à Do you buy stuffs from stores, use them and return them just in time to get full refund. It may not make much difference to stores but it is attracting the situations where you will never be able to afford what you truly desire.
Watch this video every day for 30 days with feelings and meaning. Be open to all the money.
Affirmations from the video:
My income is constantly increasing
I prosper wherever I turn
My business is a place where we prosper each other, I am honorable, and I treat others with respect, it only brings in more prosperity
Stand with your arms open and say it with joy: I am open to all the good and abundance in the Universe and Thank you life. Life will hear you and respond
I am a magnet for money
Prosperity of every kind is drawn to me
Wherever it is that I work I am deeply appreciated and well compensated
I live in loving, abundant, harmonious Universe and I am grateful
I am now willing to be open to the unlimited prosperity that exists everywhere
Life supplies all my needs in great abundance
I trust life
The law of attraction brings only the good in my life
I move from poverty thinking to prosperity thinking and my finances reflect this change
I express gratitude for all the good in my life
Each day brings wonderful new surprises
I pay my bills with love and I rejoice as I write out each check
Abundance flows freely through me
I deserve the best and I accept the best now
I release all the resistance to money and I now allow it flow joyously into my life
My good comes from everywhere and everyone.
Dos:
- Always be happy when someone else wins the lottery or someone is richer than you
- Always be grateful for everything is your life
- Appreciate everything about your life and you will receive more
- Always respect others
- Be confident that there is plenty of money for everyone.
- Dream on, they do come true
- Love yourself, love others
- Love money
- Always repeat the affirmation from the video
Don'ts:
- Never complain. Complaining will bring your more of it
- Never get jealous of others success. You will attract more feeling of jealousy which means no prosperity to you
- Never steal stuffs
- Never humiliate/insult others
- Never hate money or rich people (they attracted their wealth now it's your turn)
- Never say, "Money does not grow on trees", "Money goes out quicker than comes in", "Money brings terrible luck or everybody hates rich people", or anything that may prohibit your alignment with money
If you have a business:
Bless your customers, your employees, your suppliers, your goods and your cash register with love. Visualize that you have more than enough customers who value your service. You enjoy serving your customers.
Watch business growing and money flying in.
For business affirmations you may also refer to my "Business Affirmations" section
If you have a job:
Know that your salary is only one of the many avenues of your income. Open your heart to new ideas, repeat to yourself "I am open and receptive to new avenues of income", "My income is constantly growing".
Watch your services needed more than you thought and money flying in.
For job affirmations you may also refer to my "Job Affirmations" sections
Business Affirmations
Having a business is a wonderful thing.
All businesses are very important to every economy because they provide employment to many qualified people. Their taxes increase state revenue.
Your businesses gives personalized service to your customers and take care of specific desires.
Please always be honest in your business.
Dishonesty can only get you to some certain point but something that has no solid ground will always come back and fall. Having an honest business allows you to let Universe know that you deserve the growth. Honestly will bring you more business in long term because it will attract honesty. You will attract honest customers, honest employees and honest suppliers/vendors.
Start your business day by saying, "no one but me has choice to make big in my business". "I make a conscious choice to be very successful in my business".
"My business grows under all conditions".
You can listen to the news that may tell you that businesses are failing but know that there are many businesses that actually flourish during trying times. Your business is prone to all bad conditions because of the amount of positivity and love you give to your business.
Your business will always need at least 3 factors: Your customers, employees and vendors. We will go make affirmations for each of them them
Customers
To increase your business customers:
- Always give love to your customers, they are the reason you can do your business.
- Do not cheat your customers. Cheating them will only bring cheating customers in return
- Help them with love and joy.
- Guide them with your complete knowledge.
- Be grateful for them for the have chosen to do business with you.
Positive Affirmations for Customers
I now attract and accept many customers
My service is needed by more and more people
I efficiently fulfill needs of all my customers
I attract more customers that need my services
My customers find me easily
I love my customers
My customers love me
My customers are patient and kind
My customers are happy with my services
My customers refer their friends and families to me
My customers and my business is brought together by Universe in expected and unexpected ways
I rejoice in my business
My customers are loyal and honest. I am loyal and honest to my customers
My business is growing big
Employees
Your employees are here to help you grow your business. With great employees you can grow your business on great levels.
- Please do not humiliate your employees, especially in front of your customers. You will attract so much resentment from your employees that they will serve best to their own interest and not to the business interest. Also to humiliate any person means that you do not have self esteem to love yourself and you take it out on others. To improve your self esteem please check my self esteem section.
- Give respect to your employees and they will respect you, your customers and your business as a whole
- Consider them a family
- Appreciate their efforts. You cannot possibly do everything alone.
- Praise their creativity and efforts
Positive affirmations for Employees
I now attract and accept only knowledgeable, honest, loyal, patient and kind employees
I love my employees and my employees love me
We are a family that love each other
I serve my employees interest by giving them fair wedges and respect that they deserve
My employees serve to the best interest of my business
My employees are quick learning and have knowledge about all my products/services
My employees serve my customers with love and respect
My employees respect me
My employees are considerate
My employees are fun to be around, they are happy and joyful
My employees are honest and I am honest to my employees
My employees are loyal and I am loyal to my employees
I trust my employees, my employees trust me
My employees go extra mile to satisfy my business needs
I go extra mile to satisfy my employees' needs
When it is time for a new employee I accept him/her with love and joy
When it is time for an employee to leave, I release him/her with love and joy
Suppliers/Vendors
Suppliers/vendors are important part of all businesses. Without their services how will you serve your customers.
- Send love to all your suppliers.
- Do not cheat them because you will attract cheating suppliers.
- Accept the supplies with love
- Pay your dues with love
- Appreciate your suppliers for their efforts and efficiency
Positive Affirmations for suppliers/vendors
I now accept wonderful, loving suppliers
My suppliers give me products/services in the best price possible
My suppliers always give me more than enough at given prices
I love my suppliers
My suppliers love me
I am honest and loyal to my suppliers
My suppliers are honest and loyal to me
My suppliers bring product/services at right time, they are very punctual
My suppliers are patient and kind toward me
I am patient and kind towards my suppliers
My suppliers appreciate my business with them
I appreciate their business with me
My suppliers are fun to do business with
My suppliers have knowledge of their products and services
My suppliers help me grow my business
Here is quick video to reinforce to help visualize